‘Mum Guilt’ – It’s Still a Thing…

'Mum Guilt', yep, it's still something a mother who has lost a child, experiences. I wasn't expecting it to be a 'thing' but it is. It's painful and it's an emotion which shows it's head very often. Dare I say, we look forward to things again. After Christmas being a...

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Who Are We Supporting?

These charities are both so dear to our hearts. Because of the care they have given, we feel we have been able to grieve well, without avoiding any part of it. Throughout this process, we’ve had professionals who have become friends…

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“BE KIND TO YOURSELF…”

I distinctively remember feeling so overwhelmed with the pressure of needing to know the answer to, ‘what now?” It’s a terrible reality that in the midst of the worst nightmare, you’re feeling the pressure to have all the answers, have a plan of what is next…

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I’m Claire

Claire Christian-Farman

Wife to Luke, Mama to Selah, home-maker.

I am currently walking the darkest path and learning to create a new ‘normal’ after the worst loss, the death of our sweet baby girl, Selah in September 2017.

I am driven more than ever to share our stories with you, get alongside other parents who have experienced loss and to do all that I can to raise awareness of stillbirth and help support charities who are doing amazing works to raise awareness and who walk with families through their next pregnancies following loss.

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